If your mother raised you right (or if she didn’t and you’re trying desperately to make up for it) there is one thing that must be at the top of your ToDo list this week: Send out those thank you notes! If you completed them last night, congratulations! If not: shame on you–sitting here reading blogs instead of getting things done. Lucky for you, I’ve got a few tips to get you back on track.

1. Pick your stationery.

It’s best if your stationery matches your personality…

“The letter we all love to receive is one that carries so much of the writer’s personality that she seems to be sitting beside us, looking at us directly and talking as she really would, could she have come on a magic carpet, instead of sending her proxy in ink-made characters on mere paper.”
-Emily Post

classic | postcard | kitschy cute

*Of Note: I carry those postcards from Rifle Paper Co. in my purse. You know, just in case!

2. Be specific.

A generic thank you note is your way of saying, “I really like getting stuff, and I am happy you’re here to serve me. Me. Me. Me. Me. Me.” Instead, be a little chatty…

• Start with a greeting.
• Say thank you for the specific gift / meal / party.
• Note something specific: What do you like about the gift? Is the gift useful? Was the entrée at the dinner especially noteworthy? Were you excited to meet X person at the party?
• End with something pleasant. (ex: “Hope to see you again soon.” “We’ll think of you when we drink that bottle of Beaujolais.” “Hope the rest of your year is just as festive.”)

3. Finally, a little inspiration.

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*Also, please remember: Better late than never! It is never too late to say thank you.